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Teaching Children How to Make a Difference

 

Children look at their parents’ examples of generosity, compassion, and selflessness and carry these family values on to the next generation, says author Terri Khonsari. There are many ways to be philanthropic, and everyone can find a way to include philanthropy in their lives, she adds. Encourage your children to give their time, talents and material belongings by doing the same yourself. Go online to learn five ways to teach your children how to enjoy the act of giving.

  1. Share Your Talents
    Make a list of different ways that your children can give just by using their talents. If they read well, or are a whiz at math or science, they could tutor a younger sibling or friend. If they have artistic talent, they could help with the artwork for a fundraising poster or flyer. If they sing or play a musical instrument, have them make a CD for a shut-in to brighten their day.

  2. Share Your Time
    Time is often the greatest gift of all. Talk to your children about ways to give their time. They can stay after school to help the teacher organize the classroom, take out the trash for an elderly neighbor, or baby-sit for someone who needs a little time to themselves. This teaches not just caring about others, but responsibility too.

  3. Give to Other Children
    Pack a bag with cookies, hot chocolate, and a couple of nice children's books and go with your family to a children's hospital or rehabilitation center. Have your kids read to the kids who spend their holidays there. You can create memories in your child's mind of being a good friend and giving to those in need.

  4. Volunteer with the Elderly
    Take your kids to the local hospital or retirement community on holidays or weekends to visit. Take some cookies and gifts for those who don't have visitors and listen to their stories. The older generation has so much to offer, and we can teach our children to respect them and their knowledge, and accept what they have to share. Just listening is a great gift to give.

  5. Step Outside National Boundaries
    Sponsor a child in a third world country. Send money on a monthly basis and communicate with them regularly. Tell your kids that this is a new sibling of theirs, and plan together to send him or her toys or clothing every few months. If you can afford it, go visit that child with your children and let them experience the difference of the culture and world in which they live.

Giving your children real world opportunities to practice acts of love and kindness will teach them life lessons of compassion and generosity. You can encourage them to be thoughtful and kind and boost their self-esteem and pride at the same time. Learning that they can make a difference makes them grow in self-confidence and joy!

Terri Khonsari is the author of Raising A Superstar: Simple Strategies to Bring Out the Brilliance in Every Child. To learn more about Terri’s work visit http://www.raisingasuperstar.com/ and sign up for more free tips on raising happy, healthy, and successful children.




Parental Controls Become Easier to Understand, Install

No more excuses — parental control software helps parents supervise their children's computer usage, even when the parents are away from the computer, and the software is becoming simpler to use, according to TheOnlineMom.com.

Nearly everyone knows of a friend or neighbor's child that stumbled across an inappropriate website or accidentally deleted important files. How can you make sure this doesn't happen in your house? It's easy... and getting easier, according to TheOnlineMom.com. And it's even more important in this post-holiday season with new laptops and desktops received as gifts. Use this primer to learn about parental controls.

What are parental controls?
Parental control software allows parents to:

  • Manage time spent on the Internet or on the computer
  • Limit what their children are allowed to see and read online
  • Select which computer programs children can use
  • Monitor and log all Internet activity

Managing computer time
For all children, managing time spent at the computer is as important as monitoring the amount of time spent watching TV. Like the TV, computer use should not be an automatic right; rather it should be a privilege earned by good behavior and respect for the rules of engagement.

Most parental control software allows scheduling of times when the computer, and by extension the Internet, is and isn't available to your children.

Filters and blocking software
When it comes to controlling what children are allowed to see and read, most security suites will typically offer to block websites matching specific categories such as pornography, violence, drugs, or chat. Some blocking software will refer to its own database of matching sites, which is constantly updated for new additions, and others will analyze page content in much the same way that search engines do.

Protect files and turn off applications
All parental control software programs will also allow parents to "turn off" applications that are normally available to older users. Typically these would be e-mail services but could also include financial applications, games, movies, or other entertainment programs available off the desktop or elsewhere.

To spy or not too spy?
Finally, there is the "spyware" side of parental controls. This can be a useful tool if you want to monitor how adventurous your children might be getting with their Internet searches. Typically, these monitoring features will log every attempt to visit a banned website or simply record every website visited, good or bad. They can even send notifications real-time, so you can be at work and see which sites your children are attempting to visit.

This abridged article is reproduced from a two-part series on parental controls originally published on TheOnlineMom.com, a website offering tech information and advice to parents. Both articles can be found in full at TheOnlineMom.com.


Tips for Children's Use of Online Social Networks

The value of kids' use of online social networks can be debated, but what is indisputable is that kids are using them to socialize and form relationships. Authors Charlene C. Giannetti and Margaret Sagarese offer these tips for encouraging openness and proper use of technology:

  • Consider your child's age when buying a device. Does a 10-year-old really need a camera phone? Can you be sure your 11-year-old won't misuse that camcorder? If you decide to go ahead and buy, remember that these devices don't come with proper-use manuals. That message must come from you.
  • Focus on the behavior, not the technology. The technology may have changed, but kindness and decency should still be at the top of everyone's list. If your son is going to break up with a girl, he shouldn't send her an e-mail to do so.
  • Talk about public versus private. A young girl may think it's okay to pour out her innermost thoughts on a public website. Point out how that information may be used against her to fuel rumors.
  • Learn how your child is furthering romance on the Internet. Mention this article; then ask, "How are kids in your school using the Internet?"
  • Talk about romance and relationships. Kids may have a lot to teach parents about new technology, but parents have more to teach their children about relationships and romance — on and off the electronic highway. If parents neglect to talk about the excitement and beauty of love, adolescents will get that information from peers, the media, and, yes, the Internet.

For the full article, go to the Child Safety section of PTA.org.



Know the Truth about MRSA Skin Infections

The truth about methicillin-resistant Staphylococcus aureus (MRSA) may surprise you, according to Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). MRSA is a type of staph bacteria that causes skin and other kinds of infections. Sometimes called “the superbug,” MRSA is resistant to certain antibiotics, but several antibiotics still work. And many times, antibiotics aren’t even needed—doctors are often able to treat MRSA skin infections by simply draining them. Because skin infections caused by MRSA are increasing, the CDC launched a new campaign to educate families about MRSA and provide a four-step process for helping prevent infections.

Although most of these skin infections are mild, some infections may become life-threatening. According to the CDC, there are a few simple steps you can take to protect yourself and your family from MRSA skin infections.

Step 1: Know the signs and symptoms of MRSA and get treatment early
A staph skin infection, including one caused by MRSA, usually appears as a bump or infected area on the skin that may be red, swollen, painful, warm to the touch, or full of pus or other drainage. It is especially important to contact your health care provider if these signs and symptoms are accompanied by a fever.

Step 2: Keep cuts and scrapes clean and covered
Keeping cuts and scrapes covered will help prevent spreading bacteria to others. If you think the area is infected, contact your healthcare provider and follow his or her instructions about proper care of the infection. Be sure to discard used bandages in the trash.

Step 3: Encourage good hygiene such as cleaning hands regularly
Bacteria and other germs are often spread from person to person by direct contact—mostly by our hands. Clean your hands frequently with soap and water or an alcohol-based hand rub, especially after changing a bandage or touching infected skin.

Step 4: Discourage sharing of personal items such as towels and razors
Avoid sharing personal items such as towels, washcloths, razors, or clothing that may have had contact with infected skin or soiled bandages. Wash sheets, towels, and clothes with water and laundry detergent. Water temperatures for household laundry depend on the type of fiber or fabric of the clothing. In general, wash and dry in the warmest temperatures recommended on the clothing label. Use a clothes dryer to dry clothes completely.

For more information on MRSA, please visit cdc.gov/MRSA.



Reading to Your Kids: The Foundation for Student Success

One of the most important activities you can do with your children to prepare them for success in school is to read with them. Reading aloud to your kids stimulates their minds, strengthens their imaginations, and improves language skills. "A Place of Our Own," a daily television production of KCET in Los Angeles, provides tips for reading and sharing stories with young children:

Getting started

  • Make reading time special. Turn off distractions like the TV.

  • Make time to read every day. Reading fits into almost any routine.

  • Schedule visits to the library (and get them library cards in their own names).

  • Create a space that encourages reading. Make a "book nook" in your home especially for the kids.

Involving children

  • Take time to look at the book’s pictures. Talk about them. Ask children what they think is happening or what the characters are feeling.

  • Make the story come to life. Don’t be afraid to use different voices or inflections. Ask children to make special sounds (wind howling, dogs barking, etc.).

  • Stop at interesting points in the story. Ask questions such as "What do you think will happen next?"

  • Help children relate the story to their own experiences. Ask "Have you ever felt that way?"

  • Read the same book over and over again. Children love the repetition and being comfortable with a book gives them confidence.

Selecting books

  • Select and read a variety of books to children. Include poetry and stories about other cultures, lifestyles, and countries.

  • Use books to help you discuss important events in children’s lives—welcoming a new baby, starting daycare, moving to a new home, etc.

  • Continue to read to children after they have learned to read. This will expose them to language, ideas, and adventures beyond their own reading skills.

Other things you can do

  • Give books as presents. This tells children that books are special.

  • Let children see you read. Point out how reading helps you do important things like following a recipe or looking up a phone number.

  • Have children make their own books. Use photos or their own drawings. Let children make up a story and have older children write it down for them.

"A Place of Our Own" is dedicated to the unique needs of people who care for children up to five years of age. For more information, go to aplaceofourown.org.


Resources to Start the Year Off Right

Though kids are busy stuffing their backpacks with supplies for the new school year, Reading Rockets has packed a different sort of back-to-school bag—a virtual one filled with resources to help set the tone for a successful school year. Resource highlights include:

  • Back-to-School Transitions

  • 10 Ways for Parents to Help Teachers

  • Connect With Your School Counselor

  • Tips for a Positive Partnership

Reading Rockets also has something special for parents to pack for their children. Lunchbox Notes—small, whimsically illustrated notes you can tuck in a lunchbox or bookbag—can remind your child that you are thinking of them, reinforce reading skills, and model the power of writing. Download them for free from the Reading Rockets website.



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